Thursday, August 30, 2007

Confession is good for the soul.

I have a confession to make. This is hard, but for this relationship to continue I have to be completely honest. I have been a selfish blogger. I have come to the realization that it is all about what I can get, not what I can give. I want to read about your lives, but say I am too busy to comment. I want you to read my few and far between posts and comment, but I haven't extended the same courtesy. Relationships aren't 50 - 50. They don't work if each only gives half. Relationships only work if we both give 100%. So . . . I am so terribly sorry for my selfish and inconsiderate behavior. This relationship is important to me, even if I haven't acted like it. Will you forgive me? I don't think I could go on if you didn't forgive me. I think this is the beginning of a beautiful new season for us.

So, deep breath, let's both wipe our eyes and put this behind us. Remember, love keeps no record of wrongs. Thank you for letting me get this off my chest. That is why I love you so much!!

10 comments:

Ashlee said...

I think everyone feels that way about blogging... I do know I have missed everyone's more frequent updates (but of course have been more infrequent myself). I'll try to up my frequency of blogs and comment a lot!

A-lauf said...

I feel ya. Sometimes it seems like the things I post should be of no interest to anyone. It's easier just to visit all the other's and move on.
Your forgiven here. Bloggin is so weird

ericaprosser said...

Oh! The humanity! The drama plays on! I forgive you and I forgive myself. Blog on!

High in Demand said...

Forgiven you sweet friend of mine! I've actually missed you so much since you "haven't been around or secretly been around". I will look forward to hearing from you.

Talitha koum said...

Whatever, I guess you felt the need to confess. I just figured you were busy. It happens. Me, I just addicted to getting to know everyone, even myself, better- there is my confession. Maybe we should have
a page for bloggers anonymous. Or not. Lighten up chicky- I don't think anyone is keeping score.

Kevin said...

I forgive you!

I can honestly say I have missed all the blogging, from a lot of people.

It is hard to post sometimes, not knowing if anyone really cares. I too do not comment on some. Like I never know what to say to Trish's blogs. I love them, but have few comments, but I too will give more!

Thanks for this confession, I think we all needed it.

ericaprosser said...

Again- am I missing something? I thought you were being facetious.

Francesca said...

You are not missing anything. I am a selfish blogger, but I was being a little facetious!!

Brenda M Becker said...

I love you, you little relational thing you. HeHe!

Ashlee said...

Well, those of us who tend to take things a tad more literally feel a bit silly now.... ;-) Oh well, not the first time.